Is that a Trench or a Dress?

Monday, February 5, 2018

I'm all about multi purpose pieces.  When I something I want the most bang for my buck.  A piece that can always give you multiple uses is a trench coat.  It can be worn the traditional way and double as a dress with a boujee high slit.  What clothing item do you use in more then one way?

Trench Coat:

Little Black Dress

Monday, January 22, 2018

For my first blog post of 2018 I decided to go with a classic.  A black dress of any kind is a staple piece in any ladies closet.  The black dress I'm featuring today is Rebdolls "I Know Better" tied up maxi dress.  I really love this dress because it can be worn for multiple occasions.  It's sexy enough to be worn for a night on town but yet causal enough to be worn on a cool beach date.  How all of that is possible in one dress is unbeknownst to be.  Do have a "little black dress" that's a staple piece for you?  If so describe it to me in the comment section below.

Last Minute (In Store) Gifts For The Special Lady In Your Life!

Thursday, December 21, 2017

So Christmas is Monday and you haven't finished your Christmas shopping. Online shopping is not an option anymore since there are only TWO business days remaining. Don’t panic I got your back with some must have in store items your special person will love. 1. Fenty Beauty Stunna Lip Paint in Uncensored Not sure what elves Rihanna has working in the Fenty factory, but they were able to create a lip color that compliments all skin tones. Fenty is hands down the makeup brand of the year and has the most sought after beauty items of 2017. With Uncensored being the first lip product of the line, your special lady will be more then happy to find this item under the tree. Where to purchase: Sephora Price: $24.00

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2. Body & Earth Bath Bomb Gift Set Everybody loves to get pampered, and to do it in the comforts of your own home is even better. The Body & Earth Bath Bomb Gift Set is a 9 count bath bomb set that is only $9.88. This gift will make your special lady happy and keep your bank account happy too. Where to purchase: Walmart Price: $9.88
Body & Earth Bath Bomb Gift Set, 4 oz, 9 count

3. Bath & Body Works Candles Good smells are known to make people happy, so give the gift of a scent. Imagine being able to smell lemon zest, vanilla, pumpkin pecans waffles, and winter (whatever that smells like) whenever you want. Sounds good right? Where to purchase: Bath & Body Works Price: $15.50 - $24.50
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4. Cash Money Some people think cash isn't a thoughtful gift but they're WRONG. When giving someone cash for Christmas your giving them the gift of choice. Sometimes people don't feel comfortable answering the "What do you want for Christmas?" question so by giving them cash they can choose themselves. WARNING dont just put cash in the persons hand, I think that's where the thoughtlessness may come in . Put it in a hand written letter, card, or think of a creative way to give the cash. (Click this link for creative ideas to gift money) Where to purchase: YOUR BANK Price: Whatever you can afford

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I hope these gift ideas help put a smile on that special persons face. Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

Hey, Babe Can I Borrow Your Shirt?

Wednesday, October 18, 2017

I love incorporating mens fashion into my looks.  Be it smoking loafers, oxfords, tuxedo jackets, or fedoras.  Mixing masculine and feminine is always a good combination.  In this look I paired a pair of fitted distressed jeans and floral print heels (for my feminine edge)  with a mens dress shirt that I grabbed out of my husbands closet (for my masculine flare).

I wore the mens shirt using a Instagram technique (that I'm sure has been around for years) I've seen a lot lately where you button just the bottom two or three bottoms pull it up to cover your chest, and allow it to fall over your shoulders.  I'm obsessed with this look.  Its soft but structured which to me makes this a well balanced look.

Mens Dress Shirt: Nautica Long Sleeve Mens Dress Shirt (similar)
Jeans: Fashion Nova Tough Luck Jean 2X
Shoes: Shoe Republic LA - Tustin Heels - Nude Size 10

#SummerTimeTing Pop Up Shop/ BeInYourSkin Calendar

Tuesday, August 29, 2017

I'm so excited to announce the 2018 Be In Your Skin Calendar is out, and yours truly is in it! This Saturday I went to the official Be In Your Skin Calendar and FOC Apparel pop shop party hosted by The B Word and Flaws Of Couture.  This event was beautiful and was full of body positively and acceptance.  

I shopped with Debshop, Smash Shoes, and Kool Kids apparel.   Got to devour some of the best tacos I've ever had in my life, and danced the night away.  

I love how plus size events are becoming more common.  We need places that aren't full of judgement and hate, but places full of love, acceptance, happiness, and music LOL.  Shoutout to DJ L Double E.  If you're ever in the LA area and need a DJ to shut it down, be sure to hit him up.  

All in all the event was awesome! Be sure to pick up a calendar by going to The Be In Your Skin calendar is literally busting at the seams with self love and women empowerment.  Say "Hi" when you get to April and check out FOC dope merch by going to

The Curvyology Prom Recap

Monday, July 3, 2017

On April 29th 2017 with the help of body positive brands like J.C. Penney, Kurves By Kimi, and Plus Model Mag  I was able to bring to LA the first annual "Curvyology Prom".  It crazy how an idea, something you can’t touch or see can magnificent with hard work and detection to an EPIC night.


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Why A Prom?

I created The Curvyology Prom because over the years I’ve heard numerous horror stories from other plus size women about their prom experience.  Not being able to find a dress, not having a date, being made fun of at the prom, or just not wanting to go are just a few of the stories I’ve heard.  The mission for the Curvyology Prom is to give people that second chance. 

The Vibe At Prom…….

The Curvyology Prom was night of redemption for a lot of my fabulous girls and guys in attendance.  Guest had a chance to celebrate their bodies and who they are while being surrounded by likeminded people.  The prom took place at the LAM Gallery in Hollywood. Guest were welcomed with a red carpet and valet rope before being greeted by our amazing door person Michael with a corsage and raffle ticket for chance to win goodies provided by our sponsors and vendors throughout the night. With the help of DJ L Double E who has to be the hypest DJ in LA we had the prom jumping all night he was nonstop playing records that had  guest dancing all night. Along with that I had some special treats for the prom guest, a FREE wine bar with a signature drink named after our headlining sponsor J.C. Penney called the “Pretty Penney”, dessert table, photobooth, and a live artist drawing guest at the prom for them to take home to remember the night.  The love that was in the room was truly unbelievable.

Social Media Love…….

If you didn’t get a chance to attend the prom don’t frate, I’m taking this on the road.  The Curvyology Prom is a Prom Tour.  We could be in a city near you soon!

I've Found The Plus Size Women's Wonder Bra!

Monday, June 26, 2017

When you finish reading this blog post I hope it changes your bra life forever!

Having big boobs I've always wanted a plunge bra.  I've been on the look out for one for years.  Unfortunately,  I've never found one that gave me a plunge without my boobs plunging too LOL.  That was until on one sunny winter day I went in to my local Lane Bryant, for my usual regular degular shemgular full coverage Lane Bryant Balconette bra.  They had some type of special going on that day if you bought three bra and you know your girl can't pass up a deal.  So, I got my balconette bra, a strapless bra, and the bra of all bra.  Just close your eyes and imagine a bra slightly floating over a clear pillar with golden light shinning on it and angels singing in the background...... that was basically how I saw the display for the Lane Bryant's Smooth Boost Plunge Bra  

Y'ALL!!!!!!!!!!! This bra is everything.  When I tried it on I couldn't believe it.  My boobs have never sat that high before in my life.  This bra is honestly like getting a boob job for $38.50.

My days of avoiding deep v's are over!!!!

Check out the pics below of me wearing the bra.  I'm dramatic but I'm not exaggerating.

Making My Way Downtown......

Thursday, June 22, 2017

Making my way downtown, walking fast, faces pass and I'm home bound....... I felt like I was in Vanessa Carlton "A Thousand Miles" video in this look.  ( To be honest I had to google the artist and name of this song, I always thought it was called "Making My Way Downtown" LOL).  I'm loving pieces that are simple but girly right now.  That's why when I saw this Forever 21 Off The Shoulder Top I had to get it.  It's simple because it's a off the shoulder white top but the girly comes in with the ruffled detail and cute white pom poms.  What styles are you feeling for the summer?

7 Plus Size Bloggers Whose Style I'm Obsessed With

Tuesday, June 6, 2017

I love how people have their own sense of style.  Something that I like may not be your cup of tea and vice versa, but sometimes people have styles that everyone can't help but love.  These 7 people have just that.  I'm loving their style right now, and I'm sure you will too.

1. @Orginal_Mangu

Listen!  When I first saw MaNgu of Original_Mangu, I was taken a back.  Her style is breathing taking.  She styles everything together so perfectly, it seems like the pieces were made for just the looks she creates.  I actually can't see her pieces being styled any other way.  Everything she puts on just seems to looks like it cost a million dollars.  To top it all off, she has a BUZZ cut that is life.  Be sure to go follow her a on Instagram and get your mind blown.

2.  @Hentai.Hunny

I love me some hentai.hunny.  I just love how she's able to switch up her style so effortlessly.  One day she looks like a Gothic princess and the next day she looks like a sexy anime pin up. One common thread, no matter what she's wearing is she looks amazing with not a eyebrow hair out of place (Her makeup game is ridiculous) Be sure to check her and out and prepare to be jealous of her eyebrows.

3. @TheBigFashionGuy

There's nothing like a big guy that can dress, Trust me I have one of my own.  The Big Fashion Guy style is the definition of a classic man. Blazers, fedoras, loafers, prints, pocket squares, wingtip shoes. you name it.  If it's damper he owns it.  He's a all around  modern man.  He has style, cooks, sews a lot of his own clothes, and gushes over his woman (Big Guys are winning ladies, join the team).  Be sure to check out @thebigfashionguy and his stylish lady @iamplusblog

4. @JanelleLangford

I just found Janelle Langford's page literally a few days ago, and was like "Where have you been all my life?"  Her style is is is is ......... so me!!!! LOL. I literally could see myself in everything she has posted. Furs, feathers, skirts, and stilettos are just a small portion of the fashion punch you're getting when visiting Janelle's page.  Google style and grace and see her face.

5. @ClassyCurves

When I think of Germany I always think of a gray sky and cold days, that was until I saw Stefanie of Classy Curves.  She definitely brings the heat to Germany.  1. She has a body people pay for and 2. She has the style of a rich young debutante; Expensive, Classy, and Sexy.  Go ahead and spice up your life and check her out.

6.  @InMyJoi

In my Joi just gives my so much life and color.  Honestly even when she is wearing all black, some how her look still comes through as bright and JOYFUL (no prun intended)  Style is all about what you make it and she makes it look cool, effortless, and fierce.  Be sure to check  her out.  I bet you can pick a favorite look, because they're all amazing.

7. @Personalbravery

Personalbravery's name I think is also reflected in her style. She's BRAVE enough to wear what she wants and and show off her PERSONAL style.  I love how her style is a mixature of everything.  Some looks are funky, some are 90's inspired, some are vintage, and some are afrocentic.  Her style is the true definition of personal style.  Their is no one like Personal Bravery, and I mean that in the most stylish, unique, true to yourself way possible.  She is for sure going to be my style inspo for some looks in the future.  Be sure to check her out, you won't be disappointed.

My Favorite Red Lip

Tuesday, May 23, 2017

Being a WOC it’s sometimes hard to find a red lip that works right out the box that doesnt require the use of a lip liner. A few years ago I actually found that lipstick and have been using it every season ever since.  It’s a rich, bold, deep red lipstick called LAX by a brand called Colourpop.  I know. I know, you’re only “suppose” to wear deep rich lipsticks in the Fall and Winter months, but who made that rule?  I believe you can wear (makeup or fashion wise) whatever looks good on you whenever you want.  I’m the type of person that when I find something I love I use it and I use it often, no matter the season or any unwritten rules.

Have you ever tried LAX?

What’s your favorite lip color?

Me rocking my favorite LIPPIE LAX

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